December 29, 2013

First Date Mistakes You Don't Want to Make

Are you the kind of woman who always gets the first date, but often times the guy never calls you again? Are you wondering what it is that you're doing that's keeping you from securing a long-term, loving relationship? Are you worried that you're never going to have a boyfriend if you can't figure out what you're doing wrong on the first date? You're not alone -- a lot of women have no idea how to act on a first date or what they can do to scare a guy off. But luckily for you, you have this article to help you steer clear of these four major mistakes that can send him running in the other direction.


First and foremost, you absolutely must avoid any discussion of your previous boyfriends or lovers -- even if he asks about it. If he does ask, gently guide the conversation elsewhere. Even if he seems curious, he'll only end up measuring himself up against those other guys and wondering whether you'll end up telling the next guy about him. He doesn't need to know every person you've ever kissed on the first date -- save some things for later on down the line.
The second mistake you can make on a first date goes hand in hand with the first: talking smack about your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband. Sure, he could have been the worst partner ever and given you tons of emotional scars, but this new guy doesn't need to know that on a first date! There is a time and place for sharing this information, and if you do choose to, it is much later on after your relationship with this new man has developed on its own without the influence of your ex weighing over you.
The third mistake is a big no-no, and probably the most common. Don't drop hints about kids, marriage or the future. No matter how subtle you THINK you're being, you're basically telling him that you're ready to settle down with whatever will have you. This can scare him off and make him think less of you as a person. Relax and enjoy the ride! You don't need an engagement ring on the first date.
Lastly, while it may seem tempting on a date that's going well, never tell him that you think you two were made for each other. No matter how well you're getting along, that's a weird thing to hear on a first date!


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