January 23, 2014

10 Things You Should Never Do On a Date




We make mistakes. We learn. We move on.
It's natural for a guy to go on a few dates with a lady before their relationship could be established. That said, these few dates can actually determine how the relationship goes. If you do something stupid on the date, the chance of you two being together might fade away, or worse, disappear instantly. Below is 10 pieces of advice I have summarized from some people's dating experiences. Hopefully these will be a help for you and give you some insight on how to operate a successful date.
1. Never over brag or lie. Never, ever! If you talk as if you were everything in the world, great, you might win the opportunity to set up a second date. Then? Then you have to act like what you have lied about every time you go on a date with her. What's more tough is, after say 5 dates, will you still be able to remember all your lies? I guess you'll need a long time to go over them in advance just to be prepared.
2. Be who you are. Don't pretend to be something you're not, even if this "something" is what she likes about you. If this "something" is the only reason she calls you, misses you and sleeps with you, you probably need to stop, because in the end you will be the one she screams the F word at, not that "something".
3. On a first date, don't try to impress her with a movie or meal that you assume might 
strike her as a surprise unless you already know something about her likes and dislikes. It's not a good idea to take her to a Resident Evil movie when she only finds Hello Kitty 
interesting.

4. A little bit sense of humor works the best for you. Women always like those who make them laugh.
5. Never go on a date with your nails grown long. That really cuts down your masculinity.
6. Don't try to be too intimate. You may feel comfortable giving her a kiss goodbye, but in fact the idea of just holding hands may even freak her out.
7. Asking about her previous relationship or her ex (if any at all) hardly ends well.
8. Punctuality is important for you. It's OK for her to be a little bit late, but not you. But if you do arrive late, gently apologize to her. Don't make up stupid excuses for your late being as if it isn't your fault. That usually makes it worse.
9. Do not invade too much privacy. Nobody likes the feeling of being investigated. You 
have a whole bunch of other things to talk about other than her salary or savings, or other sensitive information like how committed she is.

10. Avoid controversial topics. You don't want to turn your first date into a debate over 
politics, beliefs or religions, do you?




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